Attractiveness is more than just who you like, it’s about appeal. Interestingly some of the best ways to appeal appear in availibity.
Have an open body language to show that you are available and smile. It’s always okay to relax, and needed especially for those long days. But the pay off of attractiveness may be worth it. Sacrifice the sloaching and stand up tall. While doing this, is it possible you attract a new acquaintance? Yes maybe it is. If you are sloaching, what does that say about your availability?
Let’s talk about your style. To appeal to avalibilty, whether it’s at work, class, or the public, there always seems to be a style or ideal that shows you are dedicated to this area of your life. Body language is important, but style will really demonstrate that you are available because it is achieved in free time with money.
When it comes to talking, talk slow. Talking slower may increase the focus of your fellow chatters but also show your calm and control. Don’t focus on anything else but the person you are talking too, as focusing away can be a sign of weakness! What is so urgent that you cannot finish a conversation? Ditching a conversation will show you aren’t available to them.
As a whole, some things to remember are to avoid being boring. Engage in emotions with people, and ignore social scripts. You shouldn’t have any reason to hold back on what you want to say. Not only is this engaging, but gives people purpose and makes them feel important. Odds are you might attract them again!
And lastly, people need to see your hands! Studies have shown that people can’t trust you if they can’t see your hands. So whip those hands out, and be more attractive!! This is Zac Spencer, saying goodnight and have a great (better) life.
Research: multiple sources
Main: New York Best Times selling author, John Medina